Are you jealous or insecure?
Do you want to get rid of it?
So let’s first try to find out what the reasons of jealouse.
This is one of the main reasons we are unhappy.
That we are very interested in the lives of others.
We will be watching every other house to see what is happening in their house.
Is someone having a baby?
If not, what is the reason for it?
If someone has money like water, why is it coming?
What’s wrong with that?
Why doesn’t this servant talk to anyone?
We are researching the rest of the world except ourselves.
This is a major cause of depression.
When we look at the blessings of others, we become inferior and jealous.
We stop seeing our blessings.
We just want to see what others have and why we don’t have it.
The majority of them are women.
Gossiping is a favorite pastime of women.
They have nothing else to do.
She just enjoys talking about others.
And these same women then become depressed.
This habit makes a person ungrateful.
We must focus our lives on our blessings.
And that’s when it will happen.
When we stop taking interest in the lives of others.
If you can’t stand the blessings of anyone, then you become jealous of this person.
So take a look at the life of the one below you.
For example, if your boss has a bike and your friend or cousin has a car, you will look at it again and again and feel jealous and tell yourself why I don’t have it.
However, if you look at someone who has a bicycle or, God forbid, not his feet,
Believe that words of thanks will come out of your mouth.
You will feel very lucky.
You will suddenly start to feel lighter.
And you will come out of depression In Sha Allah.
Most people use medication to treat depression.
This medicine gives them temporary relief but cannot get rid of it forever.
If you really want to get out of jealousy, add Thankful to your life.
Whenever you feels inferior, look at the inferior.
This habit will benefit you a lot.
Cure for jealousy insecurity:
I read in a book about the cure for jealousy
That
If you are jealous of someone
(1) Pray for this person.
(2) Whenever you go on a trip, bring a gift from that person.
(3) And praise him in front of him.
A few weeks later you will see where you first became jealous and envious of this person.
After doing these 3 things, you will start falling in love with this person.
This process is difficult but it has a lot of impact.
Just like medicine is bitter in food.
But it has the potential to heal the body as well as the process will definitely benefit you.
In Sha Allah
